For those who suffer with fear, it is like being in a never ending nightmare. Every shadow and unexpected noise, just seems to add even more worry to the sufferers disposition. It is not easy trying to stay calm when the world is full of unexpected activity.
Let us rationalise first, not everything in life can be expected, there are few things that turn up at their allotted time. Only the rise of the sun and its setting can be expected, bar that everything else seems to be in a flux of change. So you must understand that most things, will not go exactly as planned.
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We all know people who are skeptical, many of us have been this way or still are. It is a state of being that does not allow you to believe anything unless you have the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
Yet is this really the way forwards, sometimes its healthy to be a little skeptical, as it would be a bit foolhardy to believe everything people say. You could end up becoming very gullible, you would not want people taking advantage of you, would you.
You must learn to see hardship differently. As they say you cannot make an omelet without breaking a few eggs. So what makes you think that you will become wise unless you pass through the trials and tribulations of life.
You might not care for becoming wise, you might just want peace and calm in your life, yet you have to start somewhere to change what has gone wrong. You need to become stronger not weaker. You need to bend with life like the blade of grass. There is no need to become hard and heartless, this will just bring you more sorrow.
A poor man becomes rich, the moment that he discovers the treasure hidden in his heart. You do not have to look far to find your fortune, it lies in waiting beneath the exterior that you show to the world.
Deep within you is the answer to all of your dreams, if you just look within and stop looking everywhere but yourself for the answer to happiness.
Yes it is that simple, it only takes a change in attitude a dropping of all the barriers that keep you far from love. That is all you need to do.
Life brings many problems and trying to fit in with society and your peers is a problem to many. It is hard enough as it is for people growing up in this world, without having added pressure, to conform to society. It is common for a child to be shown many ways that do not suit, before the true way comes forth.
Learning to live is about learning to be yourself. You cannot be anyone else can you, for you would only make a bad impression. To be yourself in a world that wants you to conform, is a task that confronts many a soul on the spiritual path. There are so many Religions and beliefs out there and they all are calling out for your attention.
I was reading a newspaper earlier and I came across an old advert from the 1930s. The advert reads, Better a minute late in this world than 25 years too soon in the next.
Now that makes you think doesn’t it. The world has speeded up over the last few decades, everyone is in some rush to get somewhere, and not many are thinking through the consequences of how they get there. By rushing people run the risk of having an accident, or making mistakes within their life. It seems to be a bygone age when people took their time to do anything. It seems people want the next TV or the next car before they have even had the one they have got a year.
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