As human beings we are all creatures of habit and routine. Though we may yearn at times for things to liven up a little, or for some excitement to occur. That is why when we experience great change and adversity; such as a relationship breaking down; a job loss; serious illness or bereavement It can feel as if our whole world has been turned upside down.
The frightening thing about these types of situations, is that the individual feels they no longer have any control over their lives. Life has sped up and not in a good way. Whilst it is true that we can be overtaken by unexpected events. It is not true that we don’t have any control over them. Because we do. Though we cannot change what is happening, we can control how we choose to ‘react’ to it.
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There can be times in our lives, when not only is it difficult to get through the day, for some, simply putting one foot in front of the other, can feel like a mountain to climb. We live in an age where there is constant pressure. To compete, to succeed, to live up to the expectations of others and the responsibility for providing for our families financial security and emotional well-being. We do this gladly and with love, but over time, if life has proven to be very difficult, it can take its toll and many people suffer physical and mental burnout.
Long term stress can seriously deplete the body; and in spite of the warning signals people receive from their bodies, many ignore them. By sheer force of will they carry on, long after they should have stopped. Not realising the damage they are doing to themselves. Continually striving to keep going, bouncing back from one obstacle after another, until one day the mind and body says enough!
This kind of experience can be overwhelming and frightening. We take our bodies so much for granted, and it is not until they stop doing what we want them to do, do we finally appreciate them. Plenty of rest and a good diet, is often enough to repair the physical damage to the body. Unless it is something skeletal, or muscular, in which case there may be the need for a much longer recovery period and medical treatment. By far the most difficult thing that people find to recover from is the emotional damage. The loss of confidence and self belief. Acute anxiety and depression, is responsible for many people having to take time off work or being in long term unemployment.
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If you want to succeed, you’ve got to believe; and most importantly in yourself. You more then anyone else in this world deserves to be happy.
In the words of Alan Cohen “Wouldn’t it be powerful if you fell in love with yourself so deeply that you would do just about anything if you knew it would make you happy? This is precisely how much life loves you and wants you to nurture yourself. The deeper you love yourself, the more the universe will affirm your worth. Then you can enjoy a lifelong love affair that brings you the richest fulfillment from inside out”.
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You must learn to see hardship differently. As they say you cannot make an omelet without breaking a few eggs. So what makes you think that you will become wise unless you pass through the trials and tribulations of life.
You might not care for becoming wise, you might just want peace and calm in your life, yet you have to start somewhere to change what has gone wrong. You need to become stronger not weaker. You need to bend with life like the blade of grass. There is no need to become hard and heartless, this will just bring you more sorrow.
When we are drawn in spite of ourselves to follow a path, a direction, a sequence of events unfold, flow with an ease that is unparalleled. Try as we might that course cannot be averted, like a stream trying to find its way to the sea. It cannot be stopped, we can try to divert it even stem it, but it will inevitably revert back to its true course.
Can this be the growth of the spirit, can this be the alchemical fire, a spore of celestial life gifted to us human beings by our creator. We souls swell and expand creating a almost combustible reaction, Soul, Spirit and humanity, there joining no accident. This union, merging was agreed to and arranged long ago. A momentous occasion, rejoiced in heaven but can be a very difficult rite of passage for those involved.